Very thought provoking! I guess a woman should be able to say no even during, like if it's painful or something. Pretty frustrating for the guy, but a decent guy would stop. Although to call it rape, hmmmm..... Rape brings to mind total force, ripping off clothing and such
Just look at what's happening with Jessica's situation. I mean men are just as evil as women are, women just get away with it more. I'll believe there's equality in this world when women are put to death as frequently as their male criminal counterparts are.
EDIT: Okay that was off topic. Back on topic though, this is unfortunate that you have to determine the exact second that you have to abandon ship. By the way ladies, if he doesn't do it immediately, it doesn't necessarily mean he heard you and kept going on, it may mean he didn't hear you and might have been off in his own little world at that moment. I mean how many thoughts do you have going through your head when you're in that moment.
-- Edited by everbran at 17:41, 2007-02-06
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The thoughts that go thru my head: how much longer is this going to take? are the kids coming up the stairs? Did I run the dishwasher? I wonder if it stopped snowing, et etc ha hah a haha
Wait a second, you guys have time to think about stuff?
Ohh that was a burn ... but well a true one.
And yes women are just as bad as men if not worse.
I have a friend who is fighting for custody of his daughter right now. He was only 14 or 15 when she was born but the mother was 20. She is a total nut case in all honesty, and he has no problem admitting that he was young and horny. Well, he's straightened up his act went to the military until he got some crazy disease related to Scarlet fever and was discharged. He is considering going back now that he's completely better, but he's working for Cingular in the meantime, until he's made up his mind. Well, the mother on the other hand is a completely different story. We had the unfortunate luck of living in the same appt complex as she did, and having the crap scared out of us because she caught her appt on fire while she 'fell asleep" while cooking. Well, the big thing is that now she's in jail and doesn't even have custody of their daughter. Now this isn't some slight misdeed that she screwed up once and all, no she has a total problem. If you couldn't tell from their age difference when she had their daughter, she likes them young. She is now 29 and took 2 brothers across state lines against their parents consent and they were 14 and 16. She then kept a log of every single time she did anything with them, and kept explicit details. Since this all broke other boys have come forward with stories as well. The thing that gets me is that he has to fight for custody of his daughter when the grandparents obviously aren't the best parents in the world. They let the daughter run free and wild when she was younger, and as soon as she's released guess where she is going to return. That's all the poor kid needs.
I swear the legal systems in this country are ridiculous.