My husband took Ryan and his friend to the Blackhawks game and then got drunk, he then yelled at Ryan for several hours for not using the urinal. Ryan likes to use the stall. I am furious. He also called Ryan a fag, fag boy, etc.
I also feel he threatened him at one point. He referred to the movie Braveheart where the King pushed his son out the window. And made a motion that he wanted to do that to Ryan.
I need to do something, just not sure what.
Do I move out, try to kick him out, get an order of protection? Can I afford this house??
I've threatened divorce and asked him to do marriage counselling, he did not want either. I need to see the state's attorney about having him removed, then the lawyer about filing for divorce...
Already took his key, and he lost the garage door opener.
got an interview for a job Wednesday.
I just wish God would make this all easier for me.
I'll pray for you hon no matter what happens, and no matter what your choice is. Have you talked to a preacher about counseling for yourself. A good preacher will really be helpful any time you have problems.
It wouldn't hurt. I honestly believe everyone in the world needs counseling. I mean gees if you aren't being traumatized by your family the news alone will do it.
I'm so sorry Tina. It sounds like a situation that's only going to get worse. If he treated Ryan that way, I would be furious too, and afraid. I'll ask my mom to pray for you. I'm not much of a prayer myself, but I'll say a little one for you tonight. I hope it all gets better.
my Plan B is to help my mom find a 3 bedroom house in this school district and then file for divorce and move out! Maybe she can get something based on her low income and I don't make money, so I couldn't hurt her by moving in.
I wish God would give me a sign to show me a direction to go with this mess.
Everywhere I go a door is slammed in my face
The police wouldn't even make out a report!
The lawyers say I can't kick him out,
etc, etc
Don't take this the wrong way, but I now understand murder.
Just calm down hon. I know it's tough to feel helpless and like you have no control over a matter. In a case such as yours in which he hasn't actually made physical contact, then there isn't much you can do. Maybe you should file for separation. That way he knows that you're not playing games.
