I honestly think he's being nuts, but he seemed a bit put off by one of my friends on myspace. I had set up an extra myspace with my maiden name attached to it so that my friends from way way back could find me. Now he knows it and he iknows that I have my married name added and the fact that I have the kids and even his pic is on it ... I think I might have removed it because he didn't like it... I digress
So I got ahold of a bunch of my friends from where I lived before my parents divorced. I was so happy because I made so many good friends when I was young and they even remembered me once when we played them in Softball while I was in high school.
Anyways one of the first people who I found/ found me was my babysitter's oldest son, Niel. It was so cool because he helped me find my very very best friend from childhood. We literally were inseparable. We're even planning a get together now soon, even though she lives fairly far away. Talk about crazy coincidences though, her boyfriend's originally from where we live right now. Anyways I stopped by Niel's page to see if he knew how to contact any of the other people who were in our class. Floyd saw his page and kinda freaked. He was ok after I explained who it was, well a little bit.
Ok so Niel is kinda cute, but the funny thing is I never even looked at him like that until Floyd mentioned it. Even now it's like looking at my brother though. I don't think Floyd totally gets it but he's so nice and hasn't been griping about it.
So here's the funny thing. Ever since then the hubby has been watching what he eats. He says he wants a 6 pack like Niel lol. Says he thinks he has competition. I laughed so hard at him. Why are guys so insecure?
I mean I haven't minded his childhood friends and am not intimidated in anyway, unless they cross the line, but come on they're all married or in differnet states ... all I can say is my hubby is mental.
Not really. Most of my childhood friends were girls, although I ran into a man who lived next door to me when we were kids (he and his three brothers did). My husband met him, and I don't think that he gave it a second thought.
Almost exactly a year ago, my husband and I took his high school girlfriend out to dinner at our favorite French restaurant, when she was in town from Oklahoma. I met her for the first time very soon after Jim and I became engaged, and I always liked her, so nothing felt strange about that either...
I say leave your husband alone; if he drops a few pounds and shapes up a bit, that's good for his health. And, it won't kill him to feel a bit of competition anyway. After all, you DID have a life before you met him! LOL...
(stupid typo)
-- Edited by Moore ideas at 11:33, 2008-04-09
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Let me say this and this is the only time you'll ever see this and I'll completely deny ever posting this afterwards and come back and delete it:
When it comes to jealous, we as men.... suck. Yeah we'll do just about anything to make the competition go away, look bad or to make ourselves look good. So yeah I think you may have a bit of that, but competition isn't a bad thing necessarily. It can drive guys to do things they probably should have doing anyways.
There now like I said, I didn't type that, I completely deny it and you'll never hear anything like that from me again. LOL
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Lol thanks for the advice. You know Bran the hub isn't doing a very good job with trying to make himself look better .. well the looks thing was obvious he made a point to shave today ... left the sink full of his hair though and I am not cleaning it. Ok well I probably will but right now I'm saying I won't. He did make dinner ... bet the mess he left OMG!!!!!!!!! I have never seen anything like it and it would get messy there at Taco Bell during a big late night rush!
Is it just me or do guys make things worse when they try harder? I think so. It's taht whole be yourself crap. I guess it works better for me than trying too hard because it always ends up messy. I really need some chill time. I sent everyone to bed and swore to bludgeon anyone who gets up.
