Oh good heavens NO! Putting toothpaste on his toothbrush? That's ridiculous, lol. I do make all the meals around here, but not with love notes attached.
Although I believe that both my husband and I are considerate, and polite to each other, that's just courtesy. I have three children, thank you very much, and have NO desire to make my husband my fourth!
Men are exhausting enough anyway...
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"It is our choices that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities"
(Dumbledore to Harry Potter)
I often remind my husband to take his vitamin and I of course buy them for him. Also I unpack alot of the stuff he tries to pack for Florida...
I also iron his shirts, but that's because he would try taking them to a dry cleaner and that just wastes money.
There's a mutual kind of taking care of though. For example, I let him deal with all the bills. And garbage. And he fixes things, that I probably could fix, but usually don't want to.
