It's a beautiful day here, and as much as it killed me to do it, I cancelled my trip to Staunton a little while ago. Yeah...upgrade and all.
My rommmate told me yesterday that she'd decided not to go, and Jim wasn't going with me either. I doubt that any of my classmates will be there, so it all began to feel a bit lonely to me! There I would be, not headed for a reunion, but to a funeral, sitting in my room by myself (albeit a gorgeous room), eating dinner all by myself (although it would have been delicious), and then to bed.
It just didn't seem like a lovely little retreat anymore, but just sad. So, I'm here...
This, of course, is EXACTLY the time of year when I would have been arriving down in Staunton for school, and so it would have been nice to soak up the September atmosphere again (our reunions are always in the spring), but I guess it was not to be. Additionally, I just learned of another Staunton death -- the mother of my former boyfriend, from a gazillion years ago. So, that added to my melancholy.
On the upside, however, is the fact that Miss Carroll was at every reunion (except for my last one in 2007), and was around when my oldest daughter was theree. I always saw her, and always told her how much she had meant to me, so I know that she knew it. That at least gives me some peace.
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It's beautiful here too! Even the cicadas are humming today. So sorry about your trip, Moore. We've had a few funerals to attend lately too, and it does bring about a melancholy, no doubt about it.
Ted's off at our son's house putting together Quentin's new crib (Tony is still away), then out on a gazillion errands. Later we're going to our friends' house for dinner on their new deck, so we really hope the weather holds out for us.
Tomorrow, Marilyn's dropping by with a bribe bottle of wine for Ted as she needs a lamp rewired. If it's red, no way will we be downstairs on the new furniture, lol. One splotch on the new fabric and I'd have a freaking fit.
Traffic's a mess this weekend with the Red Socks in town and the main thoroughfare closed for resurfacing. Getting anywhere will be a nightmare if you need to be downtown or across it. Argh. We do.
Today is a beautiful day. We are actually seriously contemplating trading my Isuzu in for Vinnie's truck. He wants a full size truck. And as much as I don't want to have to pay a fortune for gas on it I have to agree that for a military family that moves so frequently that it would be nice to be able to pack and move our own stuff.
Plus, here is some news from my end. I was going to wait to tell everyone until I was a little further along, but me and Vinnie are expecting. Only about 4 weeks along so its really soon. But I figure especially with you all I would be talking about whats going on as we prepare for this. Especially with Vinnie going to sea here in a month and a half or so.
So yeah, now its more imperative that we get that new truck because then I can have Vinnie's more reliable Durango. Yes, I know we are the giant SUV people that everyone complains about. But we tend to travel a lot and with lots of stuff.
So anyways, Moore I am sad to hear that you canceled your trip. Though I can see why it would have been sad for you.
That's amazing and wonderful news, Shelly. A million hugs and congratulations to you three, soon to be four!! So if you NEED a truck, sobeit. It's the characters that drive Hummers for car pooling kids to soccer and school that make me nuts. There are good sound reasons for having that kind of vehicle, and you guys have one. No guilt, okay?
I've been wasting tons of time today just goofing off while Ted took 4 hours putting that darn crib together and has just now started all the shopping errands. We still have to be at Piers' place at 6 so something will have to be left undone until tomorrow.
Nick e mailed from Las Vegas and his computer, an ibook, I think, crashed on him. A blogger expo and no computer. Not good.
Mike said that he's going to leave for Auckland directly from Dulles at the end of next month - cheaper air fare from LA than from Vancouver by far. He said the fare from LA is the same as Auckland to Fiji. I doesn't make sense, but there it is.
Thanks Kae, I really don't feel as bad about being a gas hog as those people who drive Hummers. What a waste of a vehicle those are. I always said even if I had all the money in the world I wouldn't buy one of those.
I hear ya about the airlines not making sense. I remember when my in laws once flew to HI to see Vinnie. They left from Michigan, flew to New Jersey of all places and then flew all the way to Hawaii. Doesn't make sense at all. Sounds like a big waste of gas to me.
Oh, Shelly -- that's such great news! Congratulations. I'm very excited for you, and we'll all be cyber aunts and uncles to the newest little one! How are you feeling?
I'm glad that I didn't go to Staunton. I'm really tired, and just want to have some carry-out Chinese, and then climb into bed to do some reading. It really killed me to have to cancel those reservations, though. I ought to post a picture of the room...well, suite...they'd assigned me! Later.
OH -- we thought for a couple of hours that A-D's car was stolen (just to add more car drama to our lives), but it turns out that it's all okay. Her battery died yesterday, and so she called AAA to tow it to the local VW dealer. Jim told her to go ahead and have it thoroughly checked out because she'd been having some assorted minor little problems, and also Jim's going to be out there for a couple of days in October. He and A-D plan to drive the Apache Trail, and he doesn't want her darned car to break down in the middle of nowhere!
Well, this all happened late yesterday afternoon, and she didn't think much of it when the dealership didn't call her last night. So, she went to check on it this morning, and they told her they couldn't find her car, and had no record of it! She went back and forth with them for several hours (we were getting ready to report it as stolen), when they FINALLY found it. It turns out that the AAA tow-truck driver had parked her car in the VW lot about 9:30 pm, and had left her keys in the ignition!
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Not only could the car have been stolen, but this is why VW didn't have record of the car. He was supposed to deliver the keys to the office (through a secure box) with the car's information on a tag.
Jim plans to yell at AAA on Monday, not only because of the driver's negligence, but also because it means that A-D won't get her car back today, but will have to wait until Monday.
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You know I grew up in Arizona but don't think I have ever done the Apache Trail. Though I feel like I must have. My father is very outdoorsy. I have an aunt though who is a preacher of some sort to some of the Apache Indians there in Arizona.
And thank you ladies for that congrats. I am actually feeling pretty good. Waves of nausea run through me but never make it all the way to the throwing up stage. Which is weird for me because with Jolene I was sick what seems like from day 1 all the way until the day before Jolene was born. Weird huh. Anyways, I am going to try not to complain because I figure it will hit me at some point. Now i have to watch what I eat because I never lost as much as I should have. I just have to watch the sodium and on days when I go to the doctors I have to try and be as less stressed as possible. I learned with Jolene that I could make my blood pressure go down just by being really calm and relax even for just a few minutes.
CONGRATULATIONS, SHELLY!!! How exciting! I am so happy for you, Jolene and Vinnie. What great news!!
Moore, sorry about your trip, but I do understand you wouldn't want to go alone, and with your friend not going. And GAH on AAA. Seriously, why on earth would they think it would be okay to park her car at night WITH the keys in the ignition!?!?
And I've always wanted to visit Antarctica. Hehe.
Hi Kae! Sounds like another busy day for you!
I've really done nothing today. I had plans to be productive, but frankly, it didn't happen. I'm about to go finish the kitchen I started cleaning, and I'll go to the store in the morning.
Jojo, I think that you're going to be much happier in the Turks and Caicos Islands!
Shelly, here's a link for some really nice pictures (and bits of advice) for driving the Apache Trail. Really pretty! It's also apparently a trip that can easily be made in a day.
A bad dream and an upset tummy catapulted me out of bed half an hour ago and it's only 10 past 6 in the morning now. Argh. Our hostess served fantastic ribs, mashed potatoes, Swiss chard and baby carrots last night - all wonderful, but then there were these little lamb sausages and I couldn't resist. Bad idea. They repeated on me all night long then I had a nasty dream, so up I got. I'm not sure I'll stay up, but this is better than pacing the floor.
Antarctica? Sheesh, Jojo. Nippy down there this time of year. Glad to see you moved to sunnier climes, lol. I'm enjoying Nassau. I'm in a beautiful resort, gorgeous pool and bronzed waiters in little bathing suits fetching me towels and umbrella drinks. I'm getting ready for another dip...
KaeEll, I'm so sorry about your bad dreams, and upset stomach. The dinner sounds delicious!
I'm finding that some foods (all the ones you listed) play games with my stomach these days too. We had ribs about a week ago, and I had the same problem that you did. Carrots will do it too, as will lamb. Nevertheless, I don't have any intention of giving up any of these, and am fully prepared to suffer the consequences!
It's disappointing. I used to have a cast iron stomach, and now I never know from day to day what's going to turn me into a delicate female who is temporarily indisposed...
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It's disappointing. I used to have a cast iron stomach, and now I never know from day to day what's going to turn me into a delicate female who is temporarily indisposed...
The weird thing for me is that when I was pregnant with Jolene I was seriously sick at least once a day everyday. Not I get small waves of nausea but nothing yet. I keep waiting for some food to trigger it. I do get insane amounts of heart burn already though
Shelly, antacid tabs are okay to take. I survived on Maalox for my pregnancies And don't forget to take folic acid - so important. All prenatal vitamins have it now, non? Every pregnancy is different, so you never really know what to expect. Sometimes they start off rocky and end up really comfy, others are the other way around. Some are just throwing up the whole time, others not once. Little guy or girl in there growing SO fast can really wreak havoc. Nap, nap,.nap, LOL.
Have you seen your ob person yet? You are lucky to be having this little one in nice weather, and if a girl, lots of Jolene's outfits won't be too far off in size for the new baby. If a boy, not so lucky in that regard.
What's the date of Jolene's 4th bd? I wish I could help you with that cake this year, but that Minnie Mouse cake was such a piece de resistance that anything else will be easy for you. Is that cake lady that helped you last year still around?
KaeEll said what I was going to say about the fact that every pregnancy is different. It's not just the morning sickness that can change either, but the way that the baby behaves.
As for morning sickness, I was fairly lucky with that. It was usually over for me within the first six weeks, and I only had a couple of incidents when it was really serious. Otherwise, it was always just a nagging threat, but then went away. I always had crackers to munch, and tried to eat small meals or snacks throughout the day. I was also a huge milk drinker, so that helped too. My worst experience with the morning sickness was with A-D. That's because my early stages with her were during one of the hottest summers we'd had, and my two existing kids were still really little. I remember keeping them inside a lot, and lying on the couch (feeling wretched with the queasies and headaches) while they played nearby. If moaning wouldn't have freaked them out, I probably would have been doing that too! LOL...
My oldest daughter was an active baby, all the time. You could watch her playing basketball inside of me from across the room. On the positive side, she would go to sleep when I went to sleep, and would stir in the morning at the EXACT MOMENT when I'd open my eyes! I always thought that was a little odd... In life, she has always been very intense, and very high energy.
My son was the opposite. He slept the entire time, and on one occasion was still for so long that I was about to call my doctor. Before I had the chance, he moved just enough for me to know that he was still alive! He's a very laid-back guy in life, although he has clear direction.
A-D was the one who gave me the most trouble pregnancy-wise, and certainly with the delivery. In life, she has probably been the most "normal" of the three, in certain respects. Not that the other two aren't, but A-D always made friends very quickly, and always had more of a survival instinct than the other two. That may also be a factor of being the youngest child who had to break through a very close relationship between two older siblings who weren't all that happy about having the little intruder arrive on their doorstep! It's a good thing that they both adore her now...
KaeEll's right about trying to get some additional rest too. Those first few months are really crucial for that. It's difficult when you're working, and already have a young child, but even a few little naps can help.
We're all very excited for you, Shelly!
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I am happy that I spaced my kids out a bit. I mean Jolene is young but she will be 4 and a half by the time she has what I think will be a little brother. So that's good. I have a girl friend at church who has 3 little ones and her oldest is just a little younger then Jolene. I think that's insane. I don't know how you all do it having 3 little ones at the same time. I am looking for a big sister t-shirt for Jolene. I think it would be cute for her to wear to church when I tell them all about the baby. I am waiting to tell until I see my doctor the first time, because until then I won't even have a good due date.
My oldest daughter was about 4-3/4 when A-D was born, and my son was 3 years, and 4 mos old.
I recommend that you not tell Jolene for a few months (if you can manage) because children that young have no concept of time, and the wait for a baby is a very long one! I would have waited longer myself but for the fact that a neighbor's preteen daughter saw fit to mention my pregnancy at my daughter's 4th birthday party, and she over heard it. We hadn't even had the chance to tell her yet, and hadn't planned to for several months (for the reason I just mentioned to you). I could have killed the girl! I'd only told her mother the day before because I'd just found out myself...
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