So couple of nights ago, I'm sitting in bad, just around midnight on Monday. So relaxing, got my music on, snuggled in bed and then the shrieking banshee of Garden Center started up. I say this because this girl tends to always argue with whoever she is dating at the time.
So I hear the faint yelling of a guy's voice and then this girl running after him and screaming "I LOVE YOU" over and over, shrieking enough to kill your ear drums. This continues on and on until finally the guy drives away and may I say I can't blame him. I don't really care what happened, I just know two things. One, the girl really needs to keep her love life inside and quiet and too, IF YOU EVER HAVE TO GO CHASING A GUY SHRIEKING "I LOVE YOU" OVER AND OVER... you are.... PATHETIC.
Seriously, how pathetic is she? That's not gonna work, especially if you did something to hurt the guy (and more then likely she cheated on him from the sounds of it). Bad, it's horrible, bad. Why would anyone think this would work? Really? Can I get the female perspective on what she thinks she's doing in this situation?
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The woman is emotionally disturbed and needs help. She should be on some medications and have sessions with a professional to determine (and fix) her need to have public displays of her emotional outbursts.
Brandon, we too live across the street from a child who has the very same problem. She, at least once a week, is on the street throwing a tantrum, stomping feet, running away, screaming at the top of her lungs, bringing all the neighbours to their front porches wondering what on earth is going on. When at first it was disturbing, I now find it rather amusing, and that's not good, lol.
They are everywhere, these screwy, messed up people. It's a shame when they happen to inhabit the same air space as we do, though. Try to find some compassion for them, and remember that any advice you may be tempted to give would not be appreciated.
My co-workers and I had a discussion after work yesterday and we all agreed that while there certainly seems to be more of this type stuff, we think it has to do with the following:
1- Jobs are much more mentally stressing nowadays then physically stressing. The bar has shifted more to a mind doing most of the work and the body not doing a lot in comparison.
2- People are fair less healthy then they used to. And they are a lot less physically active. That means your endorphines are down and you're not getting the proper nutrition you should. A home meal for some people nowadays is KFC or McDonalds they brought home from a drive-through and not an actual cooked meal.
Combine all these things, along with the entitlement diease that a lot of people have today, and you get some seriously unstable people. Now don't get me wrong, a lot of people definitely need some drugs, like for example the lesbian partner of this girl I used to work with who tried to punch her girlfriend in the face because she said "Well I'll be making more then you on unemployment". I still think a decent percentage of these people would be much better off with a good diet and some exercise. You feel better about yourself, your body is better and you won't be waking me up at midnight chasing your loser boyfriend down.
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True very true. I think we are creating a generation of spoiled, entitled, brats who are going to have some unbelievably serious issues when they ge tout on their own.
That girl needs some counseling. Perhaps the guy is just using her for his physical gratification---and that is not going to make him love her. How old is she? I assume a teenager because you said "girl" rather than "woman.'
-- Edited by Sundancer on Wednesday 2nd of September 2009 11:30:43 AM
