Reese Witherspoon could play me or Drew Barrymore, I have people tell me I'm like Drew in her movie Never Been Kissed!! 

My husband sort of looks like Harrison Ford, although he's getting older now.  How about Val Kilmer or Mark Walberg

I have a red headed son, people call him Opy (Andy Griffith show for you youngins)

My daughter could be played by a young dakota fanning

and my middle son is a young mckauly culkin (from home alone)

Well minus her curly hair, i would say kendall ~ me  (cus i'm a bitchy, bone rack also! lol)

hmm my other half ~ jonathon (mike is sweet, would do anything for whom he cares about, but has his dark side too)

my best friend ~ robin (krista is so analytical/skeptical and gaurded)

my sister ~ carly (samantha says it like it is, and doesnt take shit from anyone)

my sisters bf ~ rex (doris has this way of making you laugh even if you dont want to)

my mom ~ krystal (mom would move heaven and earth for her kids)

my dad ~ an older version of  lucky spencer (my dad had issue with drugs also and lost his family because of it)

my real dad ~ greg madden (nothing but a sperm donor lol)

I picked these people because of the relation of the character (as i see them) to the way my friends and family are.

So this took me a really long time to figure out. But I think for myself I would probably cast Natalie, and I would like to say the old Natalie as opposed to this watered down version that we see now. I like to say her, because like Melissa Archer I am not a natural redhead, but love the look.

I think for my husband I would probably cast Ned from GH. Like Ned my husband is really loyal to his family but at the same time is very dedicated to his career.

For Jolene I would probably cast the little girls who play Miranda. And when she is older I could see little Kristina from GH. Both are just too adorable. 

I think that I would cast Bianca as my sister simply because my sister really is that pretty on the inside and out. Despite all the junk she has been through (she survived leukemia not once but twice, and suffered a nasty divorce which by the way would make a really entertaining soap opera).

I would probably cast Babe as my best friend because like Babe, my best friend thinks she is the best and forgets the bad things that she has done.

For my mom I would put Viki from OLTL in that place because my mom truly lives for her kids and really doesnt do anything that doesnt involve them. And to be honest Clint fills a good role as my step dad. My real dad is more like Bo from Days, hes not perfect but he does try.

My mother in law is kind of like what I would have pictured Brooke to be had she been able to be a mother in law before she disapeared. And in that sense my husband is a lot like Jamie too in that he has a really good relationship with both of his parents. My father in law is kind of like the old Tad only because he has a lot of those one liners that Tad had, only my FIL was never a cad.

 Hmm...i think I cast almost everyone. I will have to think more